How to make the girl I like to fall
in love with me? We’d whisper the exact question to ourselves at
some moments of our life. Sometimes, we are in the midst of fog and uncertain
of what should we do next to grab her attention?
It’s true that love is
an intricate algorithm that cannot be formulated nor calculated. However, we do
able to simplify it by knowing some of the dos and do not. The below guidelines
would definitely help you in your journey of love and hopefully will help you
to gain her heart too.
1.
First Date = Good Impression
First dating can be
quite nerve-wreaking even for ‘experienced’ guy. However, first date is the
critical moment for you to impress your dream girl and thus open the future
bridge. What should you do in the first date? Nothing wrong to plan a
stereotypical dinner plus movie date but most importantly is to be your true self,
be unique, be a man of his own style.
Dress decently –
indecency can make one be mistaken for arrogance; watch your language – obscene
language gives the impression of immaturity, being uncultured and cheap; be a
man of good habits – don’t drink or smoke like any other loser.
2. Befriending
and Understanding the Girl
Ladies are the
entities love to
be loved, adore to be adored, need to be needed.
Understanding this will move you closer to the girl you like and you’ll get to
know what she’s into, what she likes and dislikes, and what her style is.
Make the girl feel
special. Compliment her for her company and for being there when you needed
her, when you felt sad and all alone. Show appreciations for the comfort the
girl offers you and for making you smile.
3. Train
Your Shoulder and Ear
A solid shoulder and
the sensitive but silent ears are the deadly weapon to girls. Always be a good
listener and don’t hesitate to be helpful and supportive. Be that friend who rekindles her zeal
of life and restoring hope back into her life when she loses hope.
Sooner or later, she will open the door of her heart to you and you’re on the
right track by the time.
4. Balance
your Self-Esteem
Although it might be
a little rude to say: “You always have somebody to choose”, but undeniably this
is true. Remember you’re the master, the king of your own life, you’re
controlling it, not others. You can treat the girls like a princess but never ever treat
them like a queen.
Girls like a man who
has his own opinion and not just follow them blindly. They like leader not
follower. Reason to emphasis this is because girls hardly fall in love with guy
who is inferior to them. You can always fulfil what girls desire, but sometime
you should know “how much your price is” and never put it down.
However, keep in mind
that you have to keep the balance of the level of your self-esteem. If you
exaggerate your efforts, girls will turn away from you. Be natural. Know your
rights and just don’t let a girl feel that she is somehow superior than you
are. In a nutshell, you are the person to make call.
5. Mystery
and Surprise
One of the factors
that drive man and woman together is mystery. You need not to tell her everything
about yourself in one goal. Give both of you some time and let her explore your
‘secret garden’ by herself slowly. Girls like surprises and so do something
unusual to surprise her. It doesn’t have to be anything big. Maybe just showing
up at her house or work to say hello, cook her something she likes to eat, sing
to her or anything she doesn’t expect.
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